Board Thread:Off Topic/@comment-23790511-20141202062530/@comment-173.58.251.107-20141202064719

When I did this (mind you, this was four years ago), I was nervous as all hell, and I think first, you need to be yourself about it, no macho man, no tough guy, just who you are. If you intend on being in a relationship, you have to show the other person who you are and they have to accept you for what it is.

To the end of getting "together-together" with a girl, I asked her if we were "going somewhere" with our relationship. It was more or less a straight up "do you like me in that sense" type of deal. If she says yes, I think that smiling and trying to ease into the relationship would be a good idea, and if she says no, don't show your possible dissapointment openly, and try to maintain a friendship so she knows you don't hold it against her that she isn't with you in the "together-together" sense.

Oh, and my attempt failed by the way, for what it's worth.