Board Thread:Speculation House/@comment-17760348-20131021233145/@comment-140.0.252.92-20140311084201

Mercen-X wrote: Cardin seems more the type to cheat, but one can never tell in young relationships. Jaune could cheat without openly intending to. I'm told by nearly everyone I meet that I'm the nicest guy they know (extreme flattery which sadly doubles as a reminder that I tend to be treated more like "the gay friend" than a potential boyfriend for any girl I may be pursuing). In college, I cheated on my first real girlfriend simply because I couldn't see her as often and there was suddenly another girl paying attention to me. At the time, I defined cheating as sleeping with another girl behind the back of the girl you've already slept with. Since I hadn't slept with either girl yet, I didn't think of it as cheating until the girl I was with actually admitted that it was. It's amazing how stupid a person can be when they're really struggling to deny they're being a jerk. Self-denial is a powerful thing. But sometimes it's what keeps us sane and alive, in all honesty.