User blog comment:IamThorn/Ruby watched Summer Die/@comment-24177652-20140829111152

The only small problem I see with that is in the lyrics for Red Like Roses Part II, it says "I wasn't dreaming when they told me you where gone, I was wade awake and feeling that they had to be wrong." Which makes it seem she wasn't there during the death, and was only told about it.

But, every other part of the lyrics seems to point towards your argument of she might have been there.