Talk:Lie Ren/@comment-24.22.111.201-20150618040707/@comment-26463535-20150618204400

Best Friends who eventually marry are the most realistic though. Marriage needs to be based on something more than just the feeling of "being in love" since it eventually goes away. Friendship though allows the two to learn how to get along with each other, how to cope with the other's eccentricies, how it really feels to be with that person through thick and thin. Then from there, a deeper, truer form of love ,agape, can be achieved, the form of love marriage can be based on. Conflict usually naturally comes from both people wanting to move to the next level but being scared that it isn't what the other person wants and trying to move there will break up the friendship.