Thread:SomeoneYouUsedToKnow/@comment-33606803-20180707193442/@comment-35455126-20180709014144

SomeoneYouUsedToKnow wrote: Most of the time I'm not.

But I don't like sugarcoating my words at all - I'm not going to go around and assume everyone I'm speaking to is a fragile 7 year old or something - and I have little reason to care if my words hurt someone's fragile little oversensitive feelings.

Which makes people hate me and mentally label me as an asshole, thus making every little thing I do or say look like an asshole move in their eyes, regardless of wording or intention. Which gives me less reason to try to "not be an asshole", since I know it's futile.

But, I could care less if they think I'm an asshole. They want to be biased children towards people, let them. Not my problem if they want to be stupid like that.

On the same line, I could care less if they are assholes IMO so long as they present their points well. I'm perfectly happy to side with people I hate if their arguments make sense and are well presented, like proper adults should do.

I don’t think you’re an asshole.