Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-25266931-20170126040344/@comment-24993958-20170204160459

Nooo, self gratification is the problem, there's a difference between me saying I have a sexy voice and someone else doing it.

If I say it, I'm either full of myself or trying to make myself feel better. When somebody else says it, they usually do it because they either like the sound of it or want me to believe they like it.

Basically, self gratification comes either from a sense of inferiority or superiority. Other people saying it comes from a sense of real or fake acknowledgement.

Or in other words, you can't be modest when you praise yourself.