Thread:Arkantos95/@comment-27082610-20170510031105

So I'm a little tipsy and thought I might spill my guts on a potentially open forum about my current relationship that's facing a pretty big roadblock in the near future.

Okay, so for backstory, I started dating this girl from work about a month and a half ago (I don't keep track of the exact date because I'm not fucking 15). And things have been going great between us. The conversations are enjoyable, we have mutual tastes in entertainment, the sex has been pretty damn good, all that stuff. And I actually really, really like this girl. It's the first time I've ever felt like this about anyone.

And that's where the problems start. For starters, she's made it clear she's not ready for a full-on commited relationship right now due to a 5-year one ending a month or two before she started pursuing me (yes, to the amazement of everyone involved, a girl was interested enough in me to get the point across when I didn't even realize our first date was a date because I'm a fucking idiot). So sometimes I feel like I'm just a rebound, but she's made it pretty clear that my feelings are returned.

But the worst thing is that she's moving to Arizona at the end of the month and I don't know if what we've got going will survive it. Like I said, I really like her, and she's made it clear that the feeling's mutual, but I don't know if something that's not even properly established is going to survive the whole long-distance thing, and since I don't know how long she'll be gone beyond the fact that she's coming back to Texas in August for an Incubus concert she aleard had tickest for, I'm not sure what I should do here.

I'm not sure if I'm asking for advice or just venting here. I'm sorry if I'm annoying anyone, it's just between this, finals, and the fact that my brother's impending graduation (and literally a week afterwards, wedding) remind me of what a colossal fucking failure I am by comparison. I'm just a little lost right now and there's nobody IRL I can really talk to about this that isn't going to be biased af. 