Board Thread:Off Topic/@comment-70.164.250.74-20180315191229/@comment-2001:8A0:D21E:E301:84B0:AE1E:49B1:C9FE-20180317145925

A. I've never said Adam stalked Blake. I said he was obsessed with her and yes, stalking is a bad sign. "My argument was: Blake has an obsessed ex-boyfriend, so it makes sense she would pay attention for others exhibiting unhealthy behavior"

B. There is no such thing as not bad stalking.

"he was following a wounded friend hoping she would ask for help, same concept as a parent following a toddler attempting to assert it's independence exploring."

Really? Blake is not a toddler. That behavior is really condescending. At this point, I'm sure if you're trying to defend Sun or trying to bury him. If she wanted help, she would have asked for it before running.

And I know how Sun thinks, he's just wrong.

C. Since when do you need to ask people not to follow them? That is just common sense. Also, the reason why she didn't was probably because she didn't know.

D. So she learned nothing. Awesome. Also, I knew why she ran away, it should still have been a red flag. Again, he followed her for MONTHS.

2. I pretty much made clear I knew my deal-breakers are not the same everyone else's. But obviously you should learn something when your old relationship was like Blake-Adam, unless you want to end up in another one like that again.