Board Thread:Speculation House/@comment-198.242.211.102-20161130162448/@comment-26018514-20161210023154

SomeoneYouUsedToKnow wrote: .....May I ask how one can lead an abusive relationship without being an abuser?

That's like saying someone is being aggressive but not showing signs of aggression. No, it is not... one could wish to live off the grid as a hermit, which has many signs of an abusive relationship if they then involve a potential spouse, but that doesn't make them an abuser... they are separate things... though they are connected.