Thread:Sgt D Grif/@comment-27144409-20190816032520/@comment-43525576-20190816200052

EmBELLEm wrote: Whoah, does having a girlfried immediately makes you a guy? You know that you can be female and have a girlfriend? Or is that a problem? Let's look at this without social justice tinted glasses, shall we? Let's assume you're unaware of my gender, and you want to make a rough retort to me that tells me vaguely something like, "I bet your recently got dumped"? You have three opinions: Anyone who doesn't know someone's gender and/or sexual orientation and does not wish to imply it either way would keep it entirely neutral, and go with the first one. The only reason you'd go with either of the other two is to imply that you think you know the person's gender and romantic/sexual lifestyle. Saying "you got dumped by your GF" is implying a particular type of person. It is not heteronormality to feel as though this is assuming my gender, so don't act all SJW with me.
 * You recently got dumped
 * You recently got dumped by a boyfriend
 * You recently got dumped by a girlfriend